Before All Is Said and Done: Practical Advice on Living and Dying Well

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For a culture that struggles to discuss death, this book serves as a vital guide to navigate the complexities of loss and grief. Planning for one's death conflicts with our instinct to avoid thinking about mortality. While we may consider the grief our passing would cause loved ones, we often overlook the emotional and legal challenges that arise afterward. The narrative begins with author Pat Miles Zimmerman and her husband, Charles "Bucky" Zimmerman. Although they were prepared for life, they were unprepared for death. Following Bucky's sudden illness and passing, Pat faced a whirlwind of unexpected emotions, decisions, and legal issues. Through conversations with other widows, she discovered that many share the disorientation that follows losing a spouse. The shock and grief can leave one ill-equipped to handle the subsequent challenges. Pat Miles Zimmerman outlines the often-ignored issues that accompany such profound loss, including the shock of grief, potential cognitive decline, the need for support, family disputes, and self-care. While contemplating our mortality may be uncomfortable, it is essential to prepare ourselves and our loved ones for every stage of life and death. This book offers a comprehensive roadmap for being ready for both.