Strange Situation

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This investigation into the often misunderstood science of attachment theory is inspired by the author's experiences as a parent and daughter. After giving birth to her daughter, Azalea, Bethany Saltman felt a sense of emptiness, prompting her to reflect on her lonely childhood and tumultuous early adulthood. Believing she might be broken, she discovered attachment theory, which explores the evolutionary basis of love between parents and children. Over a decade, Saltman visited labs and training sessions, learning about "delight" from Mary Ainsworth, a pivotal yet underappreciated figure in psychology. She delved into Ainsworth's renowned Strange Situation procedure, which remains a vital tool for understanding attachment. This simple twenty-minute observation reveals how a baby and caregiver interact in a controlled environment. Through her journey, Saltman realized that her perceptions of love shaped her experiences and relationships, challenging her previous beliefs. The book emphasizes that love's essence is not defined by external practices but by our internal feelings and thoughts. This insight offers hope, as it empowers individuals to reshape their understanding of love and connection. Readers will embark on an emotional journey, gaining tools to better comprehend their life histories and current relationships.