The Normal Bar
The Surprising Secrets of Happy Couples and What They Reveal About Creating a New Normal in Your Relationship
- 304 Seiten
- 11 Lesestunden
Based on data from nearly 100,000 respondents, this resource explores relationship-tested strategies for couples to achieve satisfaction in communication, sex, affection, and financial cooperation. It addresses what constitutes "normal" behavior among happy couples and outlines steps to reach that ideal. Wellness entrepreneur Chrisanna Northrup collaborated with sociologists Pepper Schwartz and James Witte to create an interactive survey that gathered global feedback. The findings provide insights into how couples communicate, romance, satisfy each other sexually, share financial responsibilities, and maintain fidelity. By considering age, gender, race, geography, and sexual preferences, the authors reveal trends such as the evolution of passion with age, differing sexual desires by gender, factors leading to marital conflict, and the impact of children. They also highlight the unique experiences of gay and bisexual couples and the small habits that annoy partners. The book includes surprising statistics on sexual positions, kissing frequency among happy and unhappy couples, and loyalty in deteriorating relationships. It offers prescriptive tools for establishing a "new normal" and practical strategies to help couples break free from cycles of disappointment and frustration.
