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When Pleasing You Is Killing Me

Setting Boundaries With the Controllers in Your Life

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Do you find yourself keeping the peace at a high emotional cost? Do attempts to resolve differences with a controlling person leave you feeling exhausted? If your best traits—goodness, kindness, cooperation—seem to backfire against an overbearing counterpart, this book offers valuable insights. Drawing on decades of experience as a psychotherapist, Dr. Les Carter shares real-life stories from individuals grappling with controlling demands. He explains that everyone has a tendency toward controlling behavior, but maturity typically reduces these traits. People pleasers, inherently loving and respectful, can enhance their maturity. However, when they clash with controlling individuals, they often regress into power struggles characterized by coercion, shaming, and defensiveness. Dr. Carter illustrates how real-life pleasers established relationship boundaries by developing assertiveness, reducing defensiveness, and overcoming false guilt to foster inner trust. This journey encourages readers to set their own pace in life rather than allowing a controller to dictate their actions, ultimately inspiring them to reclaim their emotional well-being.

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When Pleasing You Is Killing Me, Les Carter

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Titel
When Pleasing You Is Killing Me
Untertitel
Setting Boundaries With the Controllers in Your Life
Sprache
Englisch
Autor*innen
Les Carter
Verlag
BookBaby
Erscheinungsdatum
2018
Einband
Paperback
Seitenzahl
260
ISBN10
1543935125
ISBN13
9781543935127
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Beschreibung
Do you find yourself keeping the peace at a high emotional cost? Do attempts to resolve differences with a controlling person leave you feeling exhausted? If your best traits—goodness, kindness, cooperation—seem to backfire against an overbearing counterpart, this book offers valuable insights. Drawing on decades of experience as a psychotherapist, Dr. Les Carter shares real-life stories from individuals grappling with controlling demands. He explains that everyone has a tendency toward controlling behavior, but maturity typically reduces these traits. People pleasers, inherently loving and respectful, can enhance their maturity. However, when they clash with controlling individuals, they often regress into power struggles characterized by coercion, shaming, and defensiveness. Dr. Carter illustrates how real-life pleasers established relationship boundaries by developing assertiveness, reducing defensiveness, and overcoming false guilt to foster inner trust. This journey encourages readers to set their own pace in life rather than allowing a controller to dictate their actions, ultimately inspiring them to reclaim their emotional well-being.